i made about her having relations with the om and she looked at me, smiled, anf licked hef lips. Basically like "i am doing that to him, i love it and you are not going to do a damn thing about it".
Here is something you really, really need to think about, a question for you to ponder. Your old W is gone, never to return. This person you see and hear now is who your W has become. Why she's like this you will never know, but she is now. Here is the question: Do you want to be married to someone like that? Too many LBS's cling to their marriage hoping their old spouse will return, but it never happens. You can maybe have a new R with this new person, but sometimes you really have to ask yourself if this new person is even someone you want to be with. If you had never gotten married and were dating this woman, would you want to marry her?
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I feel like changing all the locks on my house. But my lawyef says i cant do that.
Well you can, but what he is saying is legally you can't keep her out of the house. Right? You can change them and she can pitch a fit and call the police and you would have to let her in. But they wouldn't arrest you or anything.
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I can handle a lot but i cant handle someone so openly disrespectful to me and my kids. And the om is not going anywhere because he works with her. So im really at a crossroad. I know that i just need to focus on me and the kids but this stuff is absolutely crazy. Its like a she is totally possesed!
Are you at a crossroad? Or is the way forward pretty obvious to you?