Steve,
I'm not sure the exact timeline with which this begins.

We had some major issues in 2015 with the financial collapse, then the foreclosure took place early 2017, then the filing Feb of 2018. Those were Major! We did not have a perfect marriage. We were perfect for each other. But I don't know if you would count that as 3-4 years, or 3-4 months since she filed in Feb and withdrew.

I will gladly stick with this as long as I possibly can. I don't know if this is just natural progression, but my W pulling so distant the last 2 weeks is rough. I know its only 2 weeks, but it does affect my attitude and the home life.

M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18