Can I really do this #5

[Dtrmned]

on the prenup.
Bad prior relationship.
My assets were 1000% more than hers when we entered into marriage, I worked and and had always saved, a small inheritance and some property were inolved. But still, 1000% difference. Not to be specific, but if she had $1000 in the bank, the comparable would be my net worth at a million. Quite different.
Honestly, after putting it together, never thought about it again until our issues. We were a team all the way.
Through our marriage, she was a part of every decision. She was always on title on all of our homes (regardless if there was a mortgage or not), she had access to all of my assets, and full disclosure.
Having that protection now, may be a godsend and foresight I couldn't see.
I am very conservative. She had everything she needed and mostly what she wanted. She worked and did her own thing until children, then we took a pause on her career and she stayed home for a few years. She was attempting to get back into the workforce when the first spinal issue arrived, then downhill from there causing her to not go back to work.
Her "fantasy" is she can get back to work now (chronic, debilitating issues not with standing).
Again, a very conservative thinker outside of the love for my W and children, but the financial, legal and personal advice was to protect myself. It doesn't mean much now since we lost everything in the financial collapse. The only saving grace is the no alimony agreement signed by both of us since there aren't any other assets other than what made it through the bankruptcy.

I guess it is a difference in splitting hairs (agree or not) that Christian marriage is under one set of rules and our current legal system is another. I have and still am in love with this woman. Have been for 21 years. Whenever an issue arose, I just put it on my shoulders and made it happen. I am committed to our MR, my W and our kids.