Sara, I am so glad you came back and updated! You are a strong woman and I know you will fine with or without this M! I think that piece is also key for the R to ever be successful. It took me some time after my H came back to realize that, and I think that component (breaking the codependency) is how we begin to create and new R with someone. Gotta run. Please keep posting!
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela
