Jaylove, I get a strong feeling that my W is being coached too. I've a good idea as to who it is. Plus a parent planning the money and the other backing her to leave me. W is also taking the kids away for a week or so in the next week.

MrsJLS thanks, those were the words I wanted. W had sent... "will you be taking them out? Hope all is OK". I have to laugh at the insincerity of "Hope all is OK".... yeah all is OK... apart from her splitting my family, taking money, and planning to divorce me whilst still sleeping with me, and tried to get me into trouble, and wants to sell my home... then yeah, all is OK... I have to laugh. I think she's the chest banging monkey AND the turtle.