you're right Steve
She walked out and now has become WW.



As I read through these forums I can see that my W is def WW. 3 months ago she was so loving, non selfish. Today I can call and she would answer but it would be a 2 min tops conversation. And it would only be about kids or all business like.
She just texted me wanting to know what the deductibles are on a car I just bought her 2 weeks before she left. She needs the info for the lienholder. But still, I haven't had a solid convo for 2 weeks now. When we are together its with our family for a short time. I'm very neutral and act like I'm doing great. I feel like she sees right through me. She will not look at me in the eye either. I really need to figure out what to do from here.
She is staying at her parents with no real worries. She acts like her life is so much better since she left. She is happy and tells me that her co workers say she is the happiest she has ever looked. I'm very strong around my kids and take very good care of them and tell them I love them all the time. However, I am broken inside. I see that I need to GAL
and she will realize that I have probably move on. But I'm the nice guy thinking if I wait it out it will all fall into place. I also think my self to death. Sometimes I think.."she is making the biggest mistake of her life and she will regret all of this" am I right?



Last edited by Cadet; 08/16/18 03:37 PM. Reason: combine posts

ME 47 W 38
M17 T20
Separated 5/20/18
D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed
4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15