Expect the worst. I know you don't think she has hired a lawyer, but I would be surprised. Even if the L was "behind the scenes" to encourage you to NOT hire a lawyer.

These proceedings have a way of getting ugly, despite the early on "we are going to be amicable" talk. Once money gets involved the claws come out. That is why I told you weeks ago (and I am so happy you listened to, if not me, others) that you couldn't afford to NOT have a L.

But brace yourself. It is going to get ugly. It always does. I expect she will also try to slip things through. I am still very suspicious of the original "primary residence" language. Keep your eyes peeled. Consult your attorney often and on all things. And brace yourself for when things turn ugly.


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018