Let me tell you something. There is hope so long as the one fighting still has it. Plain and simple. On the flip side, there is a point we all come to where enough is enough. Only we know when we simply cannot take another step forward with the marriage, with our spouse and more specifically, with the behavior of that spouse. If you feel in your heart of hearts that you have reached the end of the road with this marriage, no one here will blame you for that. Just as if you feel that there is more to this story and you aren’t willing to write the ending yet, no one here will blame you for it.
There are some definite problems with the marriage if your H is chronically playing with infidelity. However, none of us are able to tell you whether those problems are solvable. If your H is ready and willing to stand up to the mistakes he’s made and get help in fixing them it is up to you to decide if you are willing to wait and see. If he’s not, then you need to do some soul searching and examine whether you’re able to accept that.
What we’re here to do is offer you some suggestions to help move you along on the path that YOU decide to take. If you say to us that you want this marriage, we’re right behind you with as much support, advice and experience as we can give. The same goes for ending the marriage.
We’re here to edit, Myrrh…but you’re writing this story.
"It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere."
--Agnes Repplier, writer and historian
