Thanks guys......so she is moving really slow. Which is fine but I think her moving slow could impact attraction??? I don’t want to have sex with her then dump her so if I am really not feeling it after this Friday then I think I need to let her go. So the girl I asked to meet with is open this week because she doesn’t have her girls, I already have plans for Friday so I could try to swing something for Saturday night I guess. Ugh...I know this is supposed to be fun but I don’t like hurting people. I also feel that 3 dates is good enough to get an idea.
I'm confused and I'm wondering if I missed something. You say she is moving slowly and that is fine. But then you say if you aren't feeling it after Friday maybe you should let it go because 3 dates is good enough to get an idea. Those things kind of seem in opposition to me. You like her enough to ask her on that 3rd date and you think it is ok for her to move slow, but if you aren't suddenly feeling it by Friday, you won't ask her out again? You have to do what is right for you and I LOVE the fact that you are concerned with NOT hurting anyone's feelings. That shows that you are a genuinely nice man who does care about the feelings of others and not just your own. And, I'm not suggesting you keep seeing someone if you aren't "feeling" it. I am just a bit confused that it seems you are saying 2 different things. Maybe just the way I interpreted what I'm reading and if so, sorry about that.
Regardless, you seem like a decent guy so, I say just continue to let that guide you. And HAVE FUN!
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
