Ok nothing new......I do have a 3rd date planned with the current girl on Friday. I do have some interest from other ladies as well so if I am interested I assume I should engage right? I don't owe anyone an explanation after 3 dates nor do I need to bring up the conversation either correct? She is not pressuring me and we usually exchange maybe a text or two a day.
Absolutely you should engage. It is JUST dating. And, no, you don't owe anyone an explanation. You are a grown man. Get out there and enjoy!
And, I don't know exactly why, but the Oxford shirt on your XW just struck me funny. In fact, please forgive me if this is offensive, but when you mention your XW, you always refer to her as "ew" and every time I read that, I read it as "ewwwwwwww" like something that has grossed me out. It took me a minute to realize you meant XW and not think that you were grossed out by your XW in calling her ew. But when I couple the Oxford thing with the "ew" thing, it literally made me laugh out loud. I'm so sorry if that is bad...I probably shouldn't have even mentioned it.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids