I still don't feel I want to tell our friends the full story. It hurts, but I think it's the best way for me and my kids at the moment. Perhaps not textbook, DB-style or even fair, but it's just how I feel. I am so focused on the kids and their well-being that nothing else matters at the moment. How I feel will come into play as things settle down.
I highly recommend NOT telling others about your situation. Especially anybody that is close to your wife. You see how difficult it is for your W to decide what she wants. If everyone that knows you guys (and trust me, word travels FAST) knows she is an adultress it might mean that is too much for her to overcome and come back to the MR. It may force her into a cut and run mentality so that she doesn't have to face all of these people again.
40 I'll have to catch up but why did you guys tell the kids? Was it her idea or yours? Kids at your ages have so much on their plate, I would have avoided this until it was no longer avoidable. (Maybe it was unavoidable, like I said, I am behind on your sitch.)
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
