That "neither do I" refers to the quote in my H's letter about not knowing what to do...and I really hope I didn't just kill the collective thread with my scary story.

It isn't meant to be depressing! I am okay. I really, really am. I think my H is a one-in-a-million kind of case, and I just wanted some input. Don't think that because my sitch hasn't gone well, it means anything for any of you - you all are doing great, and DBing IS the way to go.
Hugs to all,
Myrrh


One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.