Friends: Season 2--The air has cleared

[Lyrael]

Okay, I am jumping in the pool here at the collective thread. My individual story is pretty much ended, I think. As soon as finances permit, I will be filing for a divorce. I found out about an additional past OW (17) who got pregnant, and lost the baby at 6 and a half months, then walked in on my H with yet another OW. So I am done with my M and my H.

My questions is this - what does everyone think about dating? There is someone interested in me, and I think he is pretty nice, too. Neither of us wants anything fast or serious...more of a companionship thing. Do you guys think this is wrong? And if I do it, how should I handle it with my H? Hide it? Tell him? What?

H has written me a sappy letter about how he hasn't ended things with me because he knows it is a path that could lead to happiness, and he is "terrified of missing such a path, and doesn't know what to do." But I am fairly sue that he is still involved with this new OW, although she called him and told him not to call her again.

Well, neither do I - any input is very much welcome. Betsey gave me permission to post on the friends thread, since I don't feel much like having my own right now.
Hugs,
Myrrh