Perfect!!!! You accepted the assignment as it was given, and I think you're going to come out of here fine.
Let HIM wonder why you're not pressing him for info. Let HIM wonder why you are aloof. Let HIM wonder what the heck happened to you that you backed off from him.
I'm not saying to do this permanently, Mer. Give it a few weeks and then we can reevaluate how things are going. Deal? I'm only saying this for your sanity's sake. This doesn't have to continue ad nauseum, indefinitely. Just long enough to take the edge off of your emotions. THEN you make another decision.
But as always, if you have an idea, I defer to you. Because I know you know what's best for you, the kids and your marriage.
Being in a helicopter does not make me infallible... just want to set that record straight!
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
