I hear you Hongaku, but I genuinely think it's unnecessary to give the kids such details. The point is, we are done. They are going to have D'ed parents who will get along and make things as easy as possible for them all, and the fact that the reason for this situation is that their mother is a cheating, lying, b*tch isn't something that is going to help anyone. Maybe me for a very short time, but other that, I feel it's just not worth it, and I need to be the bigger person. And eventually, when the fog lifts and my WAW thinks hard about what she has done and how I have behaved with dignity, maybe she will show some remorse and respect for me. That's all I want. We are done and moving on, so hurting her through the kids really helps noone.
_______________________________________________ M47 W50 T-21 yrs M-19 Yrs S17 S15 D12 Found out about A 04/12/18 BD 04/15/18 Admitted A, name of AP and separate rooms 04/29/18 Told kids 07/22/18
