I have merged your two threads together. You only had 27 postings/replies on your original thread. Our general rule is to have 100 postings/replies before starting a new thread. You an change your title within a thread at any time.
Playing hard ball will get you no where. Yea, it might make you feel better to act this way, but at the end of the day, the crisis person is going to do whatever it is they need to do to make themselves feel better.
I would look within myself and ask, are there any things that I need to change for myself to make me a better person? If there are, start there and make the changes for YOU, not to get your crisis person to wake up.
Their clocks are very, very slow, unlike ours. It has taken years for them to get where they are today and it's going to take some time for them to work through those childhood issues, learn to accept the things that they weren't responsible for and come to understand that they were children and couldn't do a thing about whatever happened and learn to accept that they are good people and have people who love them in the here and now.
Dig deeper for patience, compassion and understanding.
Last edited by job; 07/24/1805:31 PM. Reason: advised Trevor as to why I merged the two threads
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
