Thank-you Loves77 and arsh18, I know you are right and I totally agree with you!! I'm just having so much trouble ACCEPTING AND MOVING ON. I just truly don't know how to go about it..I feel like I'm doing the right things (gal, going dark, working on myself) but I still can't be honest with myself that it is OVER...Even with all the FACTS and all of her ACTIONS, all of the damage she's done to our relationship (affair, rushing to D,etc), all of the damage to relationships with my family/friends and all of the PAIN and LOSS that have crushed me the last 3 months, I STILL AMAZINGLY CAN'T ACCEPT AND MOVE ON...,
Will someone please give me the secret to accepting and moving on from her??? I promise that I'll do it...I know that I'm grieving the loss of our relationship and it's going to take a long time, I'm aware of that...I just don't know what to do to let her go...I've told myself, she doesn't want to be with me...I've told myself that she isn't the person I married...I just need a direction to go that is up out of this hole, and I'll follow it...
