You make good points kiro. Supposedly she may invite me to a counseling session. Not sure if thats a good thing ro do or not, but I would steer clear of R talk. It would be about our S and maybe what shes going through with MLC. I 100% agree that she will reject anyone who doesnt validate what shes doing. Shes only telling people around her bits and pieces of the story so they are all supportive of her and I continue to look like a terrible H.
Last night we had a good nigjt as a family, laughing and talking. She did bring up some things from the past and I tried to validate and keep it simple but got sucked into a few issues but they all seemed basic and harmless. It really hurts to enjoy time together and then reality punches you in the face.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof