180man Update

[180Man]

Yes, I think you're right. I could have handled it better. It was judgmental. I don't blame her introversion, there's nothing wrong with introverts. I fell in love with one, after all. I'm just aware of her communication style and ability to clam up with difficult situations.

That's a great quote! I have often thought that but was never able to put into such concise wording.

If I knew how to break through to her I would. Either I ignore her altogether and give her time/space...or I ignore her all together and give her time/space and at some point down the road...weeks or months...I consider initiating some very light and basic conversation. My last text to her was asking to go out and do something and in hindsight that was way too much. I should have just said "hey, had a great time playing volleyball with you today! have a great weekend!" and then gone from there very, very slowly.

I'm all about learning from my mistakes, I just wish the consequences weren't often so dire for me.