First off thanks for the responses. I'm working on not blaming myself. I can take accountability for my actions for being hormonal while preggo and super emotional, but I'm not gonna keep beating myself up. It's already working!!!
I have to say, detaching might be the best thing ever. Lol. I have been as distant as ever and what do you know, he text. This was Saturday. It wasn't anything super important, it was about the baby being 6 months old. I was out of town with my dad and decided to wait on responding. By the time we were on our way home, I just didn't. The next day his mother was texting saying he was trying to get a hold of me. I wait. Then he calls 20 mins later. We are at the mall. He then texts 30 min later. I keep right on shopping. His text was "yo what's up with ". I respond about 45 min later "???? At the mall". He then explains that he has texted and called and was trying to get ahold of me. That he was checking in" asked if everything was good. I just respond yea, at the mall. He tried to continue convo but I just picked and chose what to respond to.
I'm not saying that any of this means anything. Other than this, distance works. He was defbothered by my lack of anticipation to respond to him. So next time any of you think you need to reach out, remember that distance works better. I had to fight it a couple days but after a while you get used to it. They can sense it, I'm telling you!
