Wife's counselor told her that sometimes a MLC can be a good thing. She says it can let you know if your happy where you are or not.

Wow, just wow.

Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof