Thanks job - I was overcome with emotion and now I'm breathing more easily, I know what I want.

She says she needs to separate and move out in order to find herself.

I need her to move out to maintain my sanity and allow her to work through her issues. I would prefer her not to move out but as time goes on, I feel it would be a relief. A relief from the cold, distant, emotionless person mlc has turned her into.

I feel for her and what she is going through. I wish I could fix her but we all know we can't.