Still Moving (Saying ILY Pt 7)

[mtb1981]

That realization that, the person you loved never changed, they just did a good job convincing guys like us that they weren't the person they really were, and the nice bubbly person is the real personality.

I spent months and months and months, wondering why she did this, how she could fall out of love, what changed, what I did wrong. etc etc etc. the list goes on forever.

But as you said, Neither one of us changed in the long run. We just finally saw eachother for who we are.
She saw me as someone who wouldnt keep my mouth shut and accept abuse my whole life
and i EVENTUALLY (like, very recently) saw that its not flawed pieces of her personality that caused this.
Her personality is fundamentally flawed.
So, she DID change, but she changed into the woman i came to "know" in order to be what she felt my ideal mate was.

Orange... I'm pretty sure our W's are twins that were separated at birth. The similarities are astounding. They always have been throughout both our sitches...