Also, I think it's worth mentioning.... For anyone that has followed my sitch, there was a point in April when I had a job offer rescinded due to a Facebook issue. I had an account with a fake name and no pictures of me. One of the old profile pics was of a band and it had the f word on it. Someone called the superintendent of the school and informed him about the profile. He called me and asked if it was me. I wasn't going to lie, so I said yes. He informed me that he thought the old pic with the f word on it might offend some of the people in the community if they found out it was me. So 2 days before I was to be officially hired, he took back the job offer. My commute from work would have changed from 45 minutes to 5 each way, I would have had an automatic $8,000 increase in my salary, and was also going to be the soccer coach which came with a healthy stipend. Anybody want to guess who made the call? If you guessed WW, DING DING, you win! I always kind of assumed it was her because the call was made the day after we got our taxes done, and I refused to give her any of the money from my tax return. She was angry and this was her retaliation. Found out a few days ago from a mutual friend that she was actually bragging about it! How crazy is that? You think she'd be smart enough to keep her mouth shut, but no. Can't say I was surprised to find out, but it was nice to have my suspicion validated...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...