Think about this the next time that you interact with her....
The differences between the communications is typically a hotspot in these types of relationships ...
If you were to ask a question, you expect an answer on your time....
She isn't prepared to give you an answer on your time, she gives you the answer on her time...
Have you ever asked a question,got tired of waiting for her thoughts, started a different thought, and proceeded to talk about it before you got an answer ??
Which typically leads to a " you never hear me" , or the thought gets stuck and she feels that her opinion isn't valuable to you....
Never expressed, over time it leads to the Father figure issues that you are working through....
Have you ever asked a question, then waited patiently for her answer ?
Attentive and involved until the answer comes ?
You should try that, then let me know the difference in the conversation.....
It is much the same as when I recommend reading the book that shall not be named, about love and languages, and there are 5 of them....
I always recommend reading it twice, and the second time, really think about what it is saying.
You know your love language, yes ??
Hers ???
Think about it this way...
How you feel love, is often times different than how you naturally show love.
You may feel love by physical touch, yet you show love by acts of service....
How do you show love ???
How does she ???
You asked me the other day about ways to be different, and show her a new you....
