What I am trying to figure out is this making me feel better or worse? Is seeing someone once a week and being ignored in the in between something that is fun for me or isn't?
I was talking to my cousin about my house this morning and she takes a picture of HC right next to her (they share a work bench). I say "Hi, hope you had a nice trip!" She shows it to him. Nothing. I text him "just wanted to say hi myself and welcoming you back from your trip. Nothing.
It just isn't cool with me. It doesn't feel good.
I currently feel like in control of nothing and like I am at everyone's mercy with different things in my life.
It simply doesn't feel good. I guess I'll see how Wednesday night feels if it even happens.
This may or may not apply in this situation, so use it if it works for you, but I JUST saw a quote somewhere earlier today that basically said a lack of response IS a response. I get maybe he's busy at work or something and I agree with J9 that I thought we'd all already said keeping your cousin out of it is best, but the fact that he didn't even tell her to say oh tell her I said thanks or something along those lines seems like a response to me. And, because I know you and I think similarly, IF I let it, it would drive me crazy, so I'm assuming that is what you are doing. I'm sorry, G.....that really does suck.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
