LOL V........I think we are a long way from getting it on I know she is on a dating website but she just doesn't feel emotionally ready yet. We had a lot of fun at the comedy club but she has not initiated any physical contact. We met at church yesterday morning and you could tell she felt pretty awkward being in front of people that know her story, maybe knew her and her husband as a couple and had her arms folded the whole time to let people know nothing was going on. I texted her afterwards and she admitted as such, that it didn't feel too awkward and that it was good for her.
In her mind she might have been ready but I really don't think she is. If I want to get out of this situation I could use that as a reason why.....I did feel some attraction to her on Friday night but it's hard when you don't think the other person is putting in much effort.
I definitely feel that extreme patience is required with this one but I am not sure if it's worth it. There are a lot of ladies out there who are ready to go!