Cory, that's terrible news. I still remember how I felt when I made those discoveries earlier on. There is so much literal physical pain. You really do feel helpless at this particular time. It's tempting to do something crazy like call your wife and last out but it's best to mourn quietly and realize those fun dating photos or whatever relationship your wife is in right now won't last. She may think she's happy and getting what she wants but anyone who flashes pictures like that on their social media when they're not even divorced yet are simply embarrassing themselves. Why would anyone want to advertise themselves as such a lowlife? I'm sure the woman you married wasn't like that, and I'm sure she was great before she made a change for the worse, but right now she's living in a sinful state. It's almost not worth all those emotions you're feeling except that you can't help it. You never wanted any of this. It's really the worst feeling!