Keeping my fingers crossed on your house situation!
I get what you are saying about the communication. I don't need constant communication either, but an occasional "what's up?" or "how's your day?" or whatever is all good. Hopefully you'll have a lovely evening Wednesday night and can kind of put it behind you.
And, for the record, IN MY OPINION ONLY, I think that Mach and Vanilla are kinda saying the same thing in different ways. At least that is how I read it, so if I'm reading incorrectly, I'm sorry to both of you, but in any case, I'm taking their posts as meaning the same thing and I agree with what I think they are saying.....just let it be. You don't have to figure anything out. Just have fun. Relax and enjoy the ride, have fun, DATE.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids