Wow it's been months since I posted. And what a different place I am in now then back then lol. Still separated. Thank goodness you couldn't pay me to go back to him now. But I'm frustrated. He is refusing to move his stuff out of my house or take it. I asked him to originally come and pack his stuff, but he wouldn't. So then I said I would pack it, if he supplied me with the moving materials. Nope. So now I am packing it and supplying the moving materials. But now he won't come and take it. We had originally agreed upon collaborative law, to make it easier and cheaper. Now he tells me that i won't be telling him what to do. So I said ok then I will just get my own lawyer. He said fine if you want war you got war. I don't have enough money to have a war out with him. I don't want a war. I just want it over with. Easy and peacefully. I don't want war because of our kids. And we still work together. He keeps telling me it's his way of the highway. Yet 6 months ago he agreed we needed to do the lawyers and if I got the names he would call. Which I did. So my I'm just frustrated he's playing this game. I'm trying to be cordial because we work together and he would be the type to make my life hell at work. But seriously. Enough is enough. I want this guy out of my personal life and everything just done. So anyone have any advice on how to handle an idiot like this lol.