Thank you 180. Could you please elaborate on:

"I went above and beyond to avoid screwing up. She even told me at one point "stop trying so hard." It wasn't that I was bringing her flowers too often or doing too many dishes....it was that I started worrying about losing someone so great, and it started affecting the relationship. It became unattractive."

What were the behaviors you were engaging in that became unattractive?


M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018