"I went above and beyond to avoid screwing up. She even told me at one point "stop trying so hard." It wasn't that I was bringing her flowers too often or doing too many dishes....it was that I started worrying about losing someone so great, and it started affecting the relationship. It became unattractive."
What were the behaviors you were engaging in that became unattractive?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018