JS, well done. Limbo is the gift of time. Yes being in no man's land feels bad at times, but like you said it is better than the alternative. Just keep working on you. Your W will either come around or she won't.
Have you ever said what the nature of her health problems are?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018