An interesting weekend.
Kept busy, not as much hanging with the kids as I'd like, but got some work and housework done.

W didn't mention anything all weekend about telling our S.

As I stated, I was going to give it time and see if she pressed.

Saturday was good. I went out and picked up dinner and we all ate at the table as a family, laughed, chatted and had a great time. After, W and I watched some tv and went to bed. No other real interactions.

Yesterday she woke up in a horrible mood. She was short, distant and purposefully stayed away from me all day. I just did my thing and gave her her space. As we sat down for dinner, W was VERY short with me. D even noticed and gave her a look of "why?" then looked at me like and smiled like she didn't know what to do. I shrugged it off and we ate. I'm going to write yesterday off to an "I don't now what was going on with W or if it even had anything to do with me" day. We still watched a few shows, although much more silent than usual. She's been struggling with the health/medication regulation issue which does cause some very severe mood swings. She hasn't been sleeping well, etc. etc. So, trying not to mind read. I just gave her space and vowed to myself to make it through the day without being baited in to any discussions or arguments. I made it.

Busy week for work and lots to do. Who knows what this week will bring, but I will state again as I have for the last few. Limbo is awful, the alternative is still worse, and WE (our family) made it through another week in the same home.


M51 W44
T21 M18
D14 S11
BD date 9/17
W filed 02/18
W withdrew petition following week
In house separation 03/18
In Limbo and DB'ing since 03/18
W is moving out by mid Nov 2018
A drawing up paperwork 11/18