Chris, just take deep breath. Your mind is a race horse right now. Take it easy, let things settle in. Like sandi said, she may have come back just because she had no where else. But it is still a good sign. Many WASs, no matter what their living sitch, will make coming back after leaving the very last thing they'd ever do.
as joe said, sex doesn't mean anything. Have zero expectations. Early in my sitch my W started having sex with me and sandi pointed out that likely she was fantasizing about OM with me being the physical implement of that fantasy. However, women do not have sex with men they are repulsed by, so one small positive is that she is not repulsed by you. Many WAWs get to a point or repulsion with their Hs.
But yes, you need to stop focusing so much on her. Be polite, upbeat and pleasant. But not overly eager. Don't follow her around the house. Don't wait on her hand and foot. Be busy and productive.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
