I think the google calendar idea may be a good idea for you
That minimizes contact
And clearly communicates your pickup and drop off times directly
Agree with w this should not go through kids
Yes think important things like a pet dying should be communicated
How he played in his sports game not so much
Not easy to negotiate when you are emotional
So good job at removing yourself from the conversation
Just say I know this is important but cannot talk about it now
Let us schedule a time to do that
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving