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We alll have good days and bad days

I think the google calendar idea may be a good idea for you

That minimizes contact

And clearly communicates your pickup and drop off times directly

Agree with w this should not go through kids

Yes think important things like a pet dying should be communicated

How he played in his sports game not so much

Not easy to negotiate when you are emotional

So good job at removing yourself from the conversation

Just say I know this is important but cannot talk about it now

Let us schedule a time to do that


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving