Sjohn6

Congrats on getting a good custody arrangement

Sorry about the visit

I can only imagine how surreal that would be

And how it hurt

But like what DNJ said about how it seemed important to the kids

It may be their way of saying

Hey dad everything will be okay

We can all fake it until we make it

And yes do not allow variances to custody unless explicitly agreed upon

Great if you guys can be flexible

But that has to go both ways

And never assume

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving