How is he expecting to see them only for couple of days a week soon? How will he be emotionally ok with that? It is like twisting a knife in my heart when I think about those times that D3 will miss him and cry for him
Arshi- this is a tough one even for my sitch with S15. To know at one point that your spouse help create and bring this individual into the world to nurture and love only to now turn their backs and only focus on their own needs. It makes us all wonder. For my sitch my W in over 2 months that she has gone has seen my son a total of 3 hrs. I know she is reaching out to him via text but if it were me- to not know what my dear son was doing would kill me. She has yet to ask me for an update. As you know I will not initiate contact. My feeling is once a parent has a child-they can longer play the "poor me - my feelings before my child " card. Unfortunately when they walk away from the relationship all they are worried about are themselves. As always - stay calm , focused and confident with your priorities in check. Blessings!
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18
