Thanks, everyone. I'm over it. It just $ucks that it happened. I was just caught off guard. Side note - last night I had a get together with a few friends and told them to invite whoever they wanted to. Met a lot of cool new people. The local rock star showed up and put on an impromptu concert as well. A good time was had by all. Spent some time talking to a really cool lady and had some great conversation. Really made me realize that there are a lot of opportunities out there. I'm in no way wanting to start dating or anything, but it was really nice to know that there are a lot of available people that are out there and show interest in me as well. To top it off, the time I spent talking to her, was better than any convo I had with my W for years. Really put things into perspective...


Me: 38
W:31
Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4
M: 10 years
T:12 years
BD:Jan 3, 2018
W moved out: Apr 13,2018
Filed for D: Jun 2018
D final: Sep 2019

"Surrender to the Flow"...