Well LH I don't know myself. She seems a bit too interested in my social life with other women, she gets in a snit whenever i mention things I do that I would never do with her, as mentioned above she like to compliment my sex, and s few other things that I sincerely doubt she does with her other guy "pals." I don't think she thinks she can have me whenever she wants though. She is sonically aware that I hang out with other ladies too. She also knows I work a ton so I don't get the sense from her that she thinks I am always available. In fact I'd go so far as to say it's the other way around now...I think she seems to always be available to me now. We've spent the last few Saturdays together for the most part. I also cancelled last Saturday because of work. So if anything I think she seems to be available to me now...she takes her own time to keep showing up where I am. She initiates everything save for this bonfire party. So I feel the opposite, that I can hang with her pretty much whenever I want. As far as her staying later last night...I didn't expect that anyway. We're not there yet. Maybe we never will be...who knows? But for now she has a clear desire to spend time with me and I feel her slowly getting closer to me. Of I hooked up with someone else tomorrow and said goodbye to her...I don think she'd be fine with that at this point. So I don't think she sees me as available to her whenever...she has a sense of respect for my social life and work life and she knows I only really have my weekends to come out and "play."


ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14