The changes I've made were for my own benefit and for me to become more attractive to the possibility of a new partner and a completely new life.
If W notices enough to help consider giving us a chance then that's a bonus but that wasn't my main intention. I knew I had to make changes regardless. I had started doing them slowly before W left. The split has given me the time and space to do that quicker.
I need some advice about how to handle the situation today. I feel confident when I meet her.
