Your advise is valued and i will go to see my daughter at her mothers.
Been a hard couple of days as its the 1st time i have lived without the kids being here. Its also the 1st time ive ljved on my own, very daunting. But i did go out for a few beers with mates on one of those days. Bad hangover the next day though.
So wife drops the kids off at mine early this morning, she is sobbing all time she is here, i ask if shes ok (she says she is ok). Then asks when she is allowed to have the dog over at hers, i say anytime, so we arranged a date for her to pick the dog up. She forgets one of the kids school items, so she has to go back for it, 20 minutes later and she is still sobbing. I didnt say too much, i said bye when she left. I think its because she wont see the kids for the night.