Hi I really need help with this, I have NGS super bad. She's eating it up. If I make a small demand im "pushy" or, take it slow. She's been giving me some attention while I'm at work, but tonight a friend was over so she's not having much to do with me. Just being short. It's understandable I guess. I feel like I'm being used like hell. She had sex with me this morning. I thought it was a good sign because she has not been affectionate much at all toward me. Dumb ass me made the FB request again this afternoon. Of course it was a hell no I'm not deleting my FB, that's out of the question. So I guess I need advice here. How do I get her closer, without pushing her away. I've read all of sandi2s nice guy threads and studied all I can. I have got my book the solo partner and read. I am just not cut out for this. I still find myself ready to throw in the towel and she's at my house. I'm not built for being ran over. Part of my 180 is to be Mr. Nice guy. When she left she said I was so controlling and an a hole. So I been doing the opposite, which makes me feel like the sidewalk beneath her feet.
We are taking a mini vacation at the end of this week. It will be the first time my S2 has seen the ocean so I'm glad we are both going to witness the event, it's kind of a big deal to us. I beleive like Steve says. Take care of me, GAL, and stop focussing on her so much. It's just so damn hard. I guess I'll try harder. Thank you all!
