i am so very proud of you for arriving where you have...because you see, you have arrived here in peace. when there is no anger, when there is no animosity or resentment, there can be clear thinking.
you have realized that this is indeed your husbands journey and there is nothing you can do to change things. there is comfort in finally realizing that.
the choice is yours.
something my sister said to me while i was in california (who absolutely hates my husband) - she said "kitti, i know now that whatever happens between the two of you that you will remain friends and that is the most healthy thing that can happen to two people in your situation.
i happen to agree with that. when it all comes out in the wash, can you two remain friends? looks like it. that will indeed help you two heal and move on
that is a good thing for you, for him, and for your children
