Vanilla - wow that was some straight talking and I totally respect and value what you have to say. I know that my case is unusual but I also know couples who have done it and it works. I am probably convincing myself because of my love for H. I don’t want to divorce ... I love him and want to be with him. None of us know What will happen in the next 5 minutes. I am aware that I am going against the odds and even if we end up having children together...I do face a high probability of them losing their father early in their lives. Yet this is the decision I have made in my wedding day ... and so did he or at least he told me so. I really don’t know what to do because I do want to save the marriage and have a family with my H.
W34 H61 M1 T3 June-H said he wants divorce but hasn't filed. Living and sleeping in the same bed, no intimacy from H side for last 12 months.
