Need advice on detaching- Part 2

[equalzr]

Sandi,

Im guessing you haven't had a chance to read about my situation yet, but you mention that some WW's take too long and also make changes they can't undo. How do you know when its been too long? What are those changes? My W has been talking to OM for at least a year and a half. They are deep into a PA and EA that my W has no intention of stopping. My S and I rarely know her whereabouts many nights(well I have a good idea). She has done some shady things over this period of time, that I would have never imagined her doing.