I have found your posting about your life very interesting. I have not looked at your postings as being boastful, but sharing your experiences w/others. Sometimes, when people post about their lives, it helps others to see that there is life outside this forum and that we all have stumbling blocks along the way after divorce and trying to get back in the main stream of dating and hopefully meeting someone new.
I do agree w/kml, give your current situation a little bit more time. Hopefully whatever red flags are blowing in the wind will lower as you get to know WG better.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
