Also, it truly seems like this is some form of a MLC. I believe it started shortly afyer our marriage less than 3 years ago when it was her birthday. She says she woke up that day and basicslly cried the entire day for no reason. Maybe some mild depressipn nobody noticed?
She has been happy throughout this ordeal as far as outward appearances go, and says shes the happiest shes been in a long time. I dont see her ever wanring to come back to our marriage.
Funny thing is, while i was doing research I came upon the book Women's Infidelity, and eventually shared it with her. Amazingly, she was happy to see the info(just a well written article about the book). She even said this is exactly what she was going through, and I agreed and that is why I showed it to her. Fast forward to today, and it seems like she is less convinced that is exactly what the case is. She thinks its more or less just me. That said, she will go back to see her therapist this week. Im not sure what she even wants to get out of it other than telling the therapist how much i did wrong over the years and hoping the therapist will back her and help her justify the things shes been doing.
Together:20 years M:3 years Me:40 WW:40 S15 A suspected:5/17 AC:5/18 BD:8/18 WW in full blown R w/ OM Still under same roof