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[jaylove]

My W opened up today and told me that nothing had happened recently to make her want to press ahead with the D but she’s decided that she had too many deep resentments going back years- that I wasn’t present when she had her first baby (I’m a musician and work late nights ) she felt I hadn’t acknowledged that she was a good mum to my two children who she became their step mother, she felt she had been doing the heavy lifting in the last few years (true as I had cancer for the third time) - I validated what she said even though I didn’t agree.
I did ask her to consider separation as an initial move, but she said why, when she was certain that she no longer want to be married to me.

I feel like I’ve got some closure now that she clearly outlined why she has filed the D papers, but of course feel devastated

I’ll be trying to LRT once I receive the DR book this week