Just got back from a week long trip with w and 2 boys to watch sons baseball tourny. Overall good week. No r talk and/or pursuing. I just let things happen naturally. We actually got along fairly well. And i made a point to do things on my own and jointly if the sitch called for it. Tough part starts now. She supposedly has a wedding shower tonight for her girlfriend who has halped facilitate the r with om. So needless to say...im not a fan. I also wouldnt be surprised if om was at the shower...but that maybe reaching even for the w. I know her friends family pretty well so maybe they wouldnt go to that extent.
But thats not my worry anymore anyway. Time to get busy on me anf taking care of my kids. Thank you again to everyone who has offered their inpuy. I really appreciate you taking the time to help.