Hi David Regarding your friends telling you they dont think W would have an A. If she can hide it from you then she can definetly hide it from them. I had quite a few people I confided In who swore that she would not have an A and said she is not that kind of person. I went to my W Aunty (bad move as it’s her family) She always told me I was paranoid and W would never do that. A close friend of W who was trying to help us get back on track with M promised me that nothing was happening.
Guess what! She was! EA/PA .And she lied to everyone. As a result when she left me she cut off contact with them.
You want to take hope in others words and keep denying it. I obviously cant say for certain your W is. but just be ready for it!
Me=32 W=29 R=12 yrs M=7 yrs BD 02/18/18 Dd=3 S=6 Other man confirmed 06/10/18
